Flow and Synchronicity, everything happens for a reason, if only to show us that we need to pay more attention to the signs around us which are guiding us. When an abrupt change in direction is required the pain that is attached to the decision can render us immobile. We weigh our selves down with the is it right, isnt it right, should i shouldnt i, will it be better, will it be worse etc. etc. It has been my experience that once a decision is made and a course of action is decided upon a great deal of weight is lifted, enough to allow us to continue in the new direction, regardless of difficulties on that path. It is said by many that pain is the true creater of wisdom.