What is in it for me. That is the question, isn't it. Why would anyone want a relationship that is based on the needs of one partner, the wants of one partner, the anger from one partner, the devaluation from one partner. Why indeed, because there is a warm body in bed at night, a person to chat with after work, (albeit always about what he wants to chat about), someone to do things with, (albeit all the while swearing and cursing at the event, the day, the tools or just anything in general), Must be some hidden phsycological attachement, something that is good, but what, what is good about this relationship. Surely there is some good points. sigh